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What would YOU ask a blogger?


At the Conference Writers Conference Live, I’m moderating a panel on blogging.

I have lots of questions I want to ask, but I’m curious…what would YOU ask a blogger? What do you want to know? What advice or tip have you been longing to learn more about?

One of the bloggers on the panel is a very well-known blogger, speaker, and writer, someone who can offer advice and guidance to all of us.

The lens I’m approaching this panel is that of a writer mom, which I know doesn’t resonate with everyone. For one thing, I work from home with little kids underfoot.

I have different challenges than many other people. What would you ask a panel of bloggers?

I’ll be sure to share the answers and thoughts in this space in the coming months, since I know not everyone can make it to the conference (though I understand registration’s still open…so maybe we’ll meet there?).


Sarah Reinhard is a Catholic wife, mom, blogger, reader, and farm girl who blogs at SnoringScholar.com. She is the author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families. Connect with her on Twitter and Facebook.

Getting Back on Track with Daily Blogging

I usually look at my blogging as something that can’t be cut. I mean, I can post a picture of my baby, or a daybook, or a quote. There’s no reason to cut and run and let it gather dust.

Except…

Except that sometimes, life gets in the way.

Because of that, I’ve spent the last few weeks getting out of the habit of daily blogging. I had all this other stuff that had to be done, and the blog had to wait.

Now, I find myself facing something that’s as hard for me as exercise: discipline.

Writing daily isn’t just an inspiration, at least for me. It’s not just something theoretical: it’s work. As work, it requires discipline.

Here are five tips I use when I’m in this scenario, trying to get back in the swing of things:

1. Schedule posts.
Scheduling helps me distance myself a bit and gives me a cushion. It also helps me work a day ahead. (Try as I might, I can’t usually work more than one day out. I just get overwhelmed and I lose all my steam.)

2. Keep it under 500.
It’s not the long post that takes a lot of time, is it? It’s the short post. The 500 mark is one that I stole from someone else when I did a guest blogging gig. I noticed, after that, that 500 seems to be a golden point in my own attention span. It’s not set in stone, but it’s a benchmark. If what I have to say is important, it’s worth editing. If it’s not important, it’s probably going to be even better shorter.

3. A little every day.
I tend to prefer a binge method when it comes to crossing things off lists. I want it all done NOW. But that makes the whole nature of regular blogging really overwhelming. So I do a little bit (usually one post) every day. That’s all.

4. Sometimes a schedule, sometimes not.
Nothing’s set in stone. This is helpful…and not so helpful. On the one hand, it appeals to the PsychoManager in me to have a pattern for each day of the week. On the other hand, I find myself a little annoyed when I start to notice this on other blogs. When it’s helpful, I have a schedule. When it’s not, I don’t. And that is the most helpful thing of all.

5. Have fun, but don’t let fun run me.
Blogging is my fun writing. It’s my warm-up. It’s a passion of mine. (And apparently something I can ramble on about once a week indefinitely!) When it’s not fun, then, it’s tempting to want to walk away. It is then that I have to remind myself of the discipline part of the equation. It is then that I have to buckle down and remember that not only is there no such thing as writer’s block, but this is work that must be done.

How about you? What helps you keep to a regular blogging schedule?


Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, blogger, reader, and farm girl who can be found at SnoringScholar.com. You can also connect with her on Twitter and Facebook.

The List Sickness

I am an avid list-keeper.

It’s a bit of a sickness.

It’s also extremely handy for those times when I find myself light on time, lighter on ideas, and still needing to blog.

I keep lists of things I want to ask readers. I keep lists of people I want to interview. I have a list of ideas for blog posts, of course, but also of questions I might ask those people I want to interview. I have a list of series that I could write someday and a list of quotes.

I have lists of topics that I can suggest for guest posts and lists of books I should review (and maybe even give away). I have lists of things that are just plain interesting (and therefore possibly bloggable) and lists of things that relate to writing.

I’ve just discovered Evernote for organizing these lists and it’s helpful (if a bit of a sickness all its own).

In a season when I find myself shy on time for much of anything, my lists have been keeping me afloat.

How do you keep your lists organized? Better yet, how do you use lists for your blogging and/or other writing?

Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, blogger, reader, and farm girl who can be found at SnoringScholar.com. She’s also active on Twitter and Facebook.

Blogging with the Spirit


I’ve been pretty embroiled in preparing for our parish’s Confirmation Boot Camp over the last couple of weeks. This week, in front of the class of Confirmation students, I thought about my journey to published author.

Blogging’s what lit my fire for writing. It’s how I came to be published.

I started blogging because I felt like maybe, possibly, PERHAPS, I should be writing. I thought about writing as something serious thanks to time spent in Eucharistic Adoration.I found myself in Eucharistic Adoration because, the year after I became Catholic, our parish started an Adoration program. I became Catholic because of the Holy Spirit at work in a guy I loved.

This week, I spoke and taught passionately about many different aspects of our Catholic faith. I tried to step back and let the Holy Spirit work.

He didn’t let me down.

Before each 45-minute session, we prayed Come, Holy Spirit. And I think I’ve found my new writing prayer.

So often, my writing is a link to God. It’s my letter to him, often literally. It helps me process how he’s at work in my life.

It’s hard to take myself seriously as a writer, but I find it even more challenging to think of myself as a serious blogger. Oh, I love it and I AM serious about it. But…it seems silly, doesn’t it? It’s words on a screen. I’m no big deal in the world of blogging.

But those words in the air, the ones I pray, get transformed into so much more, thanks to the Holy Spirit. I think, with his hands over mine on the keyboard, blogging might be one more way of being his instrument.


Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, blogger, reader, and farm girl who can be found at SnoringScholar.com. She’s also active on Twitter and Facebook.

Social Media & Blogging

I resisted it for quite a while. “I already blog,” I thought. “Who needs Twitter? And I can’t even really navigate Facebook. So I’ll just keep blogging.”

That was years ago. Now, I’m just as embroiled in the web of status updates as anyone else. It just seemed to be the next step, the natural progression of my blogging activity.

I have noticed, in the time since trying to figure out how status updates fit into my life to now, that these 140-character updates serve a few different purposes in my life, both good and bad.

1. They take time. It’s hidden time, time that I would have committed to other things (like picking my fingernails and staring at the sky, in many cases). Sometimes, this time is also better committed to other things (like the dishes or the messy living room). Blogging also takes time, though, and when I find myself against a brick wall, sometimes those status updates (either writing a new one or looking back at past ones) can get me launched into a new post.

2. They help me remember moments in my life. I live with little kids who say the darndest things, and by sharing these things, I create a bit of a log. There are times when I realize, as I’m capturing a blissful moment or a slice of hilarity, that I have plenty of material all around me for my blog. I see the evidence of God at work; I feel the need to make connections; I have a way of keeping myself aware of the world around me because I’m documenting it for myself. (Maybe it’s just the voices in my head, needing a way to express themselves?)

3. They give me ideas for longer pieces. Somehow, the act of writing things down–whether on a scrap of paper or a status update–aids my spotty memory. (I have hopes of getting my memory back, but…who knows?) It also, as I mentioned in #1, warms me up, so that when I have a chance to sit down at my computer for the window of time I have to write a blog post, I can DO IT: the ideas are there, cultivated in my mind or saved on my Twitter feed.

4. They connect me in different ways to more–and varied–people. This can be a pro and a con, but it’s there all the same. There are quite a few people who read blogs through Facebook, and though that does NOT suit me, it gives my blog a wider audience and sometimes a more interactive audience. When I take time (which is sometimes not often) to read other people’s updates, I might find yet another source for ideas.

5. They’re fun and they give me interaction with other people. (They’re also addictive, but we’ll leave that discussion for others.) I feel, so often, like an island in my little writing world, especially as an avid extrovert. The interaction and amusement I get from social media feeds that part of me that sometimes feels like it will wither away in the middle of a lonely, blank screen. The fun has to be balanced, it’s true. But it’s important for me to enjoy my work, and since my work these days is rather isolated from other adults, I appreciate the outlet and input of social media.

How do you use social media to support or aid your blogging efforts? Or do you find that they, instead, hamper your writing?


Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, blogger, reader, and farm girl who can be found online at SnoringScholar.com. She’s also active on Twitter and Facebook, if you’re so inclined.

Tips from Experts

I’m tight on time for this week’s column, so I thought I’d share some links to other people’s wisdom.

On Becoming Better:
Matthew Paul Turner, of Jesus Needs New PR, shares 9 Ways to Become a Better Blogger. I’m a big fan of #3: “Be funny, sensational, opinionated, over-the-top, interesting, deep, provocative–just be SOMETHING that sets you apart from others.”

And #4: “Stop complicating blogging. People over-think blogging all the time. It’s just a blog! Simplify your process.”

Oh, and…well, pretty much all of them. Go read it and see what you think.

On Mistakes You Make:
Michael Hyatt asks “Do You Make These 10 Mistakes When You Blog?” I do. Which is why I have this post bookmarked to revisit from time to time.

For Novelists (and the rest of us, too!):
I’m an avid reader of fiction, but not a writer of it. Even so, I found this listing of 25 blogs every aspiring novelist should read to be interesting and, well, addictive. 🙂

Because She ROCKS:
I make no secret of the fact that I’m a BIG fan of Jen Fulwiler, the blogger behind Conversion Diary. She’s quite a writer, and her posts about running two blogs in the midst of a busy life (she has four kids under 7 and is pregnant with #5) and her series on building traffic to your blog (part 1 and part 2) are great.

Share any great links you have in the comments!


Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, blogger, reader, and farm girl who can be found online at SnoringScholar.com.

When real life gets "in the way"

I find myself in a particularly busy season of life. This is due, in large part, to an abundance of blessings. Three of those blessings are ages six, three, and five months. The other blessings are writing (for pay!) deadlines and a new home.

This week is crazy. We are going to be closing on that new home this week (I hope! I pray!), and not only have I never done this before, but I don’t deal well with “winging it.” Home closings, apparently, involve a lot of eleventh-hour facilitating, and I’m finding myself stretched in a far different way than I ever have been before.

I’m relying on other people–people I love, people who love me, but still, other people–to get a lot of the must-do things done.

In my perfect world, I’m self-sufficient. I’m able to battle life with my glowing sword and still get a full night’s sleep.

Real life, however, looks a little different than my perfect world, and I’m starting to realize that maybe what GOD has in mind is better than what SARAH has in mind.

I’m not the first–or the last–blogger to find myself suddenly needing a break (or a really quick solution!) to deal with my real life. In fact, this isn’t the first time this has happened to me.

So here’s how I deal with it:

1. I pray. A lot. No joke. It’s taken me a number of years to realize that this has to be my first response to chaos and stress. And even though blogging might seem like, well, nothing all that serious, but maybe that makes it even more important for me to turn to God.

2. Dip into my archives. I’ve been blogging a while, and sometimes, craziness just means I rerun something from my archives. An alternative to this is to post something easy, like a quote or a guest post (if there’s one waiting for me).

3. I work ahead. I do this a lot anyway, but I am even more conscientious of scheduling posts with plenty of time ahead when I know my offline life is going to be extra demanding.

4. Take a break. This always seems unthinkable at first, but–whaddaya know?–the internet doesn’t even notice when I’m gone for a few days or weeks! Who knew? (Lesson in humility anyone?)

How about you? How do YOU deal with real life getting “in the way” of your blogging or writing?


Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, blogger, reader, and farm girl who can be found online at SnoringScholar.com.

Blogger’s Block

I’ve been mulling over Karina‘s excellent discussions about the lie of writer’s block and busting it when I realized that I have a secret weapon.

Blogging.

Admittedly, I’m a little crazy. (I blame the baby. You should, too.) Even so, for me, blogging lets me stretch my writing muscles before I get down to the “real work” of writing for other venues.

(If that explains to you why my blog makes no sense, well, then, there you go.)

If you’ve been blogging past the bloggymoon phase, you’ll know about the creeping fear that comes upon you in the middle of the night, when you find yourself with no scrap of paper and no way of guaranteeing you’ll remember the brilliant idea you just had. (Getting up will only make it flit away, and turning on the light is sure to make it scatter.)

So here’s my shot at ideas for your possible “blogger’s block,” should you find yourself tempted to hit the “delete blog” button instead of tackling your brain for something to write:

Quotes. A good quote goes a long way. You don’t even have to write about it, though sometimes I do use a quote as a jumping off point for something else, especially when I’m using scripture.

Lists. This might just be because I’m the addicted-to-lists sort, but making a list of what’s in my purse or at the bottom of my three-year-old’s bed is sometimes great blog material. And it can also be interesting (or scary).

Recent Reading. Most of the writers and bloggers I know are readers, so it’s natural to share your recent reading and a short excerpt or your impressions. If you’re not a reader but you have some other similar hobby–watching movies or listening to podcasts–that could also be a source of material.

Pick Your Exercise. We’ve all used those writing exercises, haven’t we? If not, find some and use them as blog fodder.

Ask the Masses. Got a burning question, something you’ve always wondered? Ask. And answer.

Meme (or Copy). There seem to be less memes going around than there were years ago, but you can still find plenty of those “tag, you’re it” type of posts if you look. Or you can just list random things about yourself.

How about you? What do you use when you find yourself facing blogger’s block? Share your ideas and suggestions in the comments!


Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, and certifiably addicted blogger who can be found online at SnoringScholar.com.

It’s Mary’s Fault I Write

May is Mary’s month, and I can’t help but reflect in this space about how it’s Mary’s fault that I write.

Yes, I blame her. Writing was a dream of mine years ago, when I was a wee girl living in the country and filling notebooks with terrible tales, but I never thought I’d actually do it as work.

The reality of writing, though, is such that I can only shake my head and surmise that, surely, only God’s MOTHER could be responsible for this.

I was going to be so! much! more! The image of me frantically pecking at a keyboard while kids are bouncing off the walls or while racing the nap times and potty breaks and snack times is so far from what I had planned for myself that I can’t help but laugh…still…all these years later.

It all started when Father was out of town and I was holding down the parish office fort by myself. During that week, I had what felt like a whole series of weird “Mary signs.” I don’t know what else to call them. They were significant to me at the time, but if I shared them with you now, you’d laugh (and I wouldn’t blame you).

I was so moved by them that I started a list and bombarded Father with them when he returned.

“Well,” he said. As I rambled on and on and ON, he sat there and probably tried not to smile.

It was later that year that I started blogging, which was intended to be a daily writing exercise. The feeling that I was supposed to write was…uncomfortable. It’s not that I didn’t think I could do it, it was that I really had no training for the craft, for the networks, for all the ins and outs.

I don’t think it’s a coincidence that my big “break” into writing came as a result of a column about Mary’s various titles over at Catholic Exchange. And then there was the opportunity to join the Catholic Moments show with a “Mary Moment.”

Opportunities kept growing and expanding. In fact, my Marian writing is what seems to always attract people, to get the leads, to keep my writing alive.

So I guess the least I can do is keep plugging along, relying on her (and her Son!) for help and strength on the journey.

Do you have a patron for your writing endeavors? I’d love to hear your stories in the comments!


Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, and certifiably addicted blogger who can be found online at SnoringScholar.com.

"Enjoy em while they’re little"

When my oldest was a rambunctious toddler, I always groaned inwardly when a well-meaning matron would advise me, “Enjoy her while she’s little!”

Easy for HER to say, I’d fume, she’s probably forgotten the intricacies of enjoyment.

Now, a few years and a couple of kids later, I have a glimpse of just what those well-meaning matrons meant.

Enjoying is a choice, and it’s not always an easy one. In the face of spilled milk, spit-up green beans, and a gallon of water you-don’t-wanna-know-where, you can laugh or you can scream. You can see the opportunity for grace in action or you can berate the circumstances that aligned to ruin your moment.

I’ve found the same to be true of blogging. At first, your blog’s a new baby, perfect in every way. Ten fingers, ten toes. Look how it smiles and shimmers!

And then come the sleepless nights: you don’t wanna keep writing, you can’t think of anything clever, and it’s starting to feel suspiciously like work.

I often wonder if people know how I long for older children. Being told to enjoy my kids while they’re little is like advising a cat lover to curl up with a Jack Russell.

Even so, there are fleeting moments and things I find myself forgetting. There are treasures waiting to be stored and shared thanks to the little people in my life.

Don’t forget, when the shine starts to wear off of your blog, that you should still be enjoying it and that enjoying it is a choice you can make. Do you need to rework your topics? Do you need to spruce things up, invite some folks to guest post, take a little breather?

Don’t give up on your blog. Enjoy it, whether it’s little or not.

Sarah Reinhard, author of Welcome Baby Jesus: Advent & Christmas Reflections for Families, is a Catholic wife, mom, and certifiably addicted blogger who can be found online at SnoringScholar.com.